Tuesday, April 27, 2010

Am I Stalking you Properly?

Seriously. Sort of :)

I have a few followers whose photos don't link to their blogs or websites. A few of these fine folks I can link to if they leave a comment. I have no idea why I can link to things from the name, but not link to things from the photo. *sigh* I do wonder sometimes how Blogger really feels about me.

I think I have most or all of your blogs on my blog roll. That's what I use to check out your blogs, so if I don't have you on my list, PLEASE let me know.

I'm also on Twitter as @jemifraser. Maybe not the most exciting @name in the Twitterverse, but I'm usually easy to find :) If we haven't linked up on there, please leave me your Twitty name. I'm not the most consistent Tweeter (Twit???) in the T'verse, but I do tend to pop on for a little bit most days.

I have a few more thank yous to catch up on.

VR Barkowski awarded me the Stylish Blogger Award. Love the graphic on this one! Makes me feel under-dressed in my comfy pjs & no socks.

Nicole Ducleroir at One Significant Moment at a Time and Shelley Sly at Stories in the Ordinary both awarded me the Awesome Sauce Award. Makes me want to go whip up a pot full of awesome!

If you haven't checked out these ladies and their wonderful blogs, do it as soon as you can. Hurry! The longer you wait, the more you're missing!

I wanted to do the whole Carbon-Neutral Blog thing on Earth Day, but without a computer, it was too hard. So as of now, I'm fulfilling the conditions. I chose the pretty pink leaf because it matches the blog :) Please check out this link to find out how to make your blog carbon neutral. These nice folks will plant a tree in order to combat the energy required to run your blog. We also planted several trees here on Earth Day. Hopefully you managed to do your thing to make this planet a little better and a little brighter. It's so important to make every effort we can. We have to make up for all of the destruction our species has caused. Education is the key - the more we know, the more we can do.

So, can you tell I'm in catch-up mode? That was a pretty eclectic blog post :) Don't forget to check the blog roll to see how my stalking is coming along! :) The easiest way to do this is to use the Edit button on your tool bar. Click on the Find on This Page link - then type in your blog name. If you don't show up, please let me know!

105 comments:

Lola Sharp said...

Congrats on your awards, Jemi.

Jemi Fraser said...

Thanks Lola :) I've got some pretty sweet friends!

Arlee Bird said...

I've noticed some of those untrackable followers as well. I've sometimes thought I'll return the favor by following their blog but alas no blog to link to. Oh well, another mystery.

Think about the May 17th Favorite album post. No big advance planning required-- just post spontaneously if you like. After all it's just an opinion thing that doesn't have to be definitive or anything. Just something to give us an idea of some music you like or has influenced you in some way. Just jump in when it's time and connect your post to the Linky and there you go. Think about it.

Lee
May 3rd A to Z Challenge Reflections Mega Post

Madmother said...

NOPE, NOT ON THE LIST. :(

Jemi Fraser said...

Arlee - I will definitely think about it. In fact I've put a title in as a draft blog so I don't forget :) I'll know closer to the date! Thanks!

Jemi Fraser said...

Madmother - :( indeed! I'll see if I can remedy that right now!!

Anonymous said...

I think you're doing all right on the stalking, good lady. At least, you comment on my blog now and then, and I classify that as effective stalking. Well done!

;)

Jemi Fraser said...

Thanks Simon - always glad to stalk your blog :)

Theresa Milstein said...

Feel free to stalk anytime! You follow my blog, but it didn't link to your blog when I clicked on your name. But I was able to click from your comment, so now I follow you.

Susan Gourley/Kelley said...

You are the best stalker. I'm so impressed you keep up with so many blogs.

Jemi Fraser said...

Thanks Theresa - I'm glad it's not just me that can't link through all linky things. I don't know why it isn't a little easier and consistent!

Jemi Fraser said...

Awww - thanks Susan. It's so nice to be a good stalker! (Okay that sounded really weird - but you know what I mean. Right?)

Alyson said...

I think you are a wonderful stalker!
(There's a sentence I never thought I would say.)You really do a great job. So glad to be a stalking buddy with you!(Man, this would be strange for a non-blogger to hear.)

Jemi Fraser said...

Alyson - lol :) It does all sound a little creepy doesn't it? But we know we're completely normal... Don't we?? :)

Laura S. said...

Thanks for stalking my blog. :) Congrats on your well-deserved awards, Jemi!

Jemi Fraser said...

Thanks Laura - glad my stalking is working :)

Alex J. Cavanaugh said...

You are stalking me just fine!

Jemi Fraser said...

Alex - Good stuff - I'm glad my stalking is up to par :)

ModernDayDrifter said...

I am in catch up mode too! Gotta love it!

Unknown said...

I'm trying to catch up. I feel so behind on reading other's blogs. On twitter, I'm mmcdonald64

I'm not there a whole lot, but I'm slowly learning how it works.

Jemi Fraser said...

Jessica - ain't life grand? :) Catching up is not my favourite thing - I HATE being behind!!

Mason Canyon said...

Congratulations on the awards. You deserve those. Catch-up mode is good sometimes. I feel like I run behind most of the time. I've got to check out the Carbon-Neutral Blog. Sounds like a good thing.

Mason
Thoughts in Progress

Jemi Fraser said...

Mary - I can't get your twitter name to work. I'll keep looking though :)

Jemi Fraser said...

Thanks Mason :)

I hate feeling behind - and I'm so darn busy I should be used to it!!

I like the carbon neutral idea - anything to help the planet!

Anonymous said...

There are tons of great blogs out there. I do cruise through your list a lot. I'm in the habit of doing more reading then commenting these days. (I get to more blogs) It means less comments on mine, but oh well.

Jemi Fraser said...

Carolyn - we all have our ways of doing things - I don't think there's any wrong way to blog! Do what works for you :)

Shannon O'Donnell said...

Congrats on your new awards, Jemi. You gotta love the Awesomesauce Award! :-)

Jemi Fraser said...

Shannon - thanks so much! And I know - isn't it a great award!! :)

Patricia Stoltey said...

You're one of my favorite stalkers, and I'm trying to become a better stalker myself. It's a wonderful avocation.

Kathi Oram Peterson said...

I love it when you come visit my blog. I try my best to stop by yours as often as possible. Stalking this way is pretty awesome. Thanks!

Anonymous said...

Congratulations on the awards!

Sometimes, it's difficult for me to do reciprocal following, too, because a person's picture doesn't lead to their blog and they haven't left a comment. I do wish blogger would make it easier to find a follower's blog.

Stephanie Thornton said...

Congrats on all those lovely awards!

I have a hard time following some people too. If their picture doesn't link back to their blog or if they don't comment it can be tricky.

VR Barkowski said...

I don't understand why there's sometimes a disconnect between the picture and blog, but it seems to be happening more frequently.

Congrats on your awards and on your carbon neutral blog!

BTW, I'm sure I was wearing comfy pjs and no socks when I wrote the award post for the stylish blogger - so that seems most appropriate.

Sara {Rhapsody and Chaos} said...

YOU my dear are the award QUEEN =) Congratulations on all of those!

That awesomesauce award? Makes me HUNGRY!!

Unknown said...

I agree with Sara. You are the award QUEEN!

Congrats honey. Again :)

Jemi Fraser said...

Patricia - lol :) That's a statement you can't make just anywhere! Thanks :)

Jemi Fraser said...

Kathi - you have a great blog - I always enjoy the visit :) Thanks!

Jemi Fraser said...

Sandy - thanks :)

I'm a little relieved to hear other people sometimes have troubles too. I thought it was just me Blogger was giving a hard time!

Talli Roland said...

Congrats on the awards!

I'm with the others - I've had a hard time with some profiles, too. I want to follow them back... but I can't. But if they leave a comment, sometimes I can find it that way. Frustrating, because don't want them to think I'm ignoring them!

Jemi Fraser said...

Thanks Stephanie! I'm relieved to know it's not just me!

Jemi Fraser said...

VR - good to hear! I'm glad I wasn't letting the award down in any way :) I'm all about comfy! :)

Jemi Fraser said...

Sara - thanks so much :)

That awesome sauce award does have a GREAT graphic, doesn't it? Love it!

Jemi Fraser said...

Thanks Wendy! You're always so sweet! :)

Jemi Fraser said...

Thanks Talli! And you're right - I feel badly when I can't follow them back. There are some profiles with no links listed for them at all. Frustrating!

Helen Ginger said...

I sort of like using the word "stalking" instead of "following." (In this situation, anyway.)

I wonder about folks who leave a comment and I click on their name but they have multiple blogs that they participate in and the one that they do alone is dead with just a notice on the dead blog that they've moved, but no link to take me there.

Helen
Straight From Hel

Aubrie said...

Congrats on your awards! Yes, we are stalking each other just fine. :)

Elizabeth Spann Craig said...

You're nice to try to follow up with everyone! It's hard when there are so many...

Congrats on the awards!

Elizabeth

The Daring Novelist said...

I figured out that if they don't have a "follow me" on their webpage, you can manually add blogspot blogs from your own followers page.

I try to offer as many ways as possible for people to follow or subscribe, but you never know when there will be an incompatibility.

Alix said...

You are indeed stalking me correctly :) Thanks!

Lisa_Gibson said...

Congrats on the awards Jemi!
I used to have an issue with my picture showing up. It was a setting I had to tweek and ever since, it's been working fine. Wonder if that's the problem.

Julie Dao said...

Congrats on your awards, Jemi! And I know what you mean about stalking people properly - I get frustrated when I try to return the follow and their photo doesn't have a link! Grrr ;)

Elana Johnson said...

You're totally stalking people the right way. At least I think so. Congrats on your awards!

Anonymous said...

Congrats! on your awards. I also like to see a person's face when they leave a comment. Or at least an image.

Stephen Tremp

Rosalind Adam said...

We're definitely stalking each other, Jemi, which is just fine by me. Good to see you back on the internet and congrats on those awards.

Natalie said...

Yep, you are an excellent stalker. :)

Karen Strong said...

Welcome back to the cyberworld, Jemi!
We've missed you!

I could have sworn I was a Follower, but I guess not! I am now part of your minion! :)

Kirsten Lesko said...

Holy blogroll! No wonder you have such a successful blog!

Congrats on the awards

Jemi Fraser said...

Helen - exactly - I alwyas feel bad about not following/stalking, but I can't find a correct link!

Jemi Fraser said...

Aubrie - Good to hear! It's always good when the stalking is up to par :)

Jemi Fraser said...

Elizabeth - it's hard when the links don't work, but I like trying to follow everyone who drops by :)

Jemi Fraser said...

Daring - yes - if I can find their webpage/blog, I just add it to the blog roll that way - it's finding the link that's the hard part!

Jemi Fraser said...

Karen - lol :) Always a pleasure to be a good stalker!

Jemi Fraser said...

Alexa - thanks for letting me know! Glad to be doing the stalking thing properly :)

Jemi Fraser said...

Lisa - Thanks :)

Maybe that's it. I don't know enough about Blogger, and I just don't have the extra time to actually study it. That sounds right though!

Jemi Fraser said...

Julie - exactly! It's hard when you can't find someone's link!

Thanks :)

Jemi Fraser said...

Elana - thanks! It's so nice to do something well - even if it is stalking :)

Jemi Fraser said...

Stephen - I like the faces too - but I'm not going to reveal mine! I'll tell you why someday :)

Jemi Fraser said...

Rosalind - Thanks - it's fun having good stalking friends :)

Jemi Fraser said...

Thanks Natalie - it's always good to be good at something :)

Jemi Fraser said...

Karen - thanks! I didn't realize you weren't a follower either! Funny how that happens :)

Jemi Fraser said...

Thanks Kirsten - if you ever want to find some terrific blogs to follow, just check out the sidebar. It's full of amazing people :)

Unknown said...

Congrats on the fabulous awards!!! Way to get your blog green too! I've been meaning to do it but it always slips my mind when I'm hard at work on the blog front!

Hilary Wagner said...

Jemi! Holy awards, Batman! Look at all your new shinys! Congrats, girlie! You deserve it! I have not seem the "Awesomesauce" award and I love it! How cool! ;)

xoxo -- Hilary

Stewart Sternberg (half of L.P. Styles) said...

Hey. I love the sense of community that can develop within the blogosphere. It can be a great way to exchange ideas, to give support, to do marketing, etc. It can also be difficult if one has many followers and tries building a following by visiting many blogs and regularly corresponding. Soon one is spending all one's time doing just that. Of course there are the one line people, those who jump from blog to blog to maintain a following by leaving one line responses to a posting. I do that myself from time to time, but mostly, I like to give more personal and involved comments.

Jemi Fraser said...

Jen - yes - it's always hard to get everything done - especially in a timely fashion :) I'm glad I finally did the carbon-neutral thing!

Jemi Fraser said...

Thanks Hilary - I have some really special and generous friends! :) Don't you just love the awesomesauce award? It's so cool!

Jemi Fraser said...

Stewart - so true. I try to leave comments that mean something - hopefully I succeed at least some of the time :)

Eric W. Trant said...

I do the blogroll, too, and I add a snippet so I can see what the post pertains to.

I read what I can, and what sounds interesting, and I comment on what I can, if I have something interesting to say...

On the "not showing up in my blogroll" comment, I'll say this: I believe they have a database that is only updated once every 24hrs or so. Seems new blogs will show up a day later.

Or maybe it has something to do with the latest post.

In any case, I sense a database sync issue causing a lag to adding folks to your blogroll.


- Eric

Anonymous said...

Congrats on more warm fuzzy awards. You continue to be an inspiration to us all.

Jemi Fraser said...

Eric - that sounds very sensible! I don't know enough about the technical aspects, but your theory makes sense. I'll keep trying the links - thanks :)

Jemi Fraser said...

Thanks so much Cat - you're so sweet :)

Anonymous said...

I don't know how you keep up with all your commenting and posting. wow! You're a machine! :o)

Jemi Fraser said...

Niki - lol :) More like sleep-deprived!

India Drummond said...

I've had several blogger folks tell me they couldn't figure out how to follow me, probably because I log in to it using my Twitter ID. I'd straighten it out, but I don't know how either.

Anyway, I follow you on Twitter! You can find me at: http://www.indiadrummond.com/

Lisa Gail Green said...

Jemi,

You have me! Yay! Though I'm probably one of those weird ones that doesn't match up with my comments. It's frustrating! I can't figure out how to fix it. Oh well. I'm going to go follow you on Twitter now...

Belle said...

Love eclectic posts - sometimes a little bit of random makes my day :)

Jemi Fraser said...

India - I've got you now - both on the blog roll and on twitter! I don't know how to fix most of these things either :)

Jemi Fraser said...

Thanks Lisa - I just don't get all the ins and outs and twists and turns of the Blogger mind. It should be straight forward and logical - but it doesn't seem to be! I'm following back on twitter now :)

Jemi Fraser said...

Belle - I'm like that too. If I can have a bit of random I'm happy. It's that old right brain working again :)

Mari said...

Cheers for randomities on your blog Jemi! heh ;P

I'm most definitely writing a carbon-free post, asap!

See, to put a link in a picture, you might want to look for a widget called "picture". That's what I've used to link back to the generous people who gave me blog awards, heh. (you included, my dear :)

It's a basic widget you'll probably find in the first page. If you have problems finding it, give me a shout out by email that I'll help you out, ok?

Many congrats on more and more blog awards!

Ah, your "stalking" is just fine, IMO. I love your thoughtful comments on Randomities, heh. Err, just one little detail? You have Randomities's old name on your blog roll... not that it makes that much difference, but since you asked. ;)

All the best, always! :)

Jemi Fraser said...

Mari - Thanks! I'll check it out. It's all the little tricks I don't always get to know. One of these days I'll sit down and study it.

And I forgot to make the name change *facepalm* I'll change it up in a minute :)

Kimberly Franklin said...

Congrats on your awards!! Don't you hate it when things don't link up?

Here's my info, in case you want it. LOL. :)

www.kim-franklin.blogspot.com

My twitter name is: @kimfranklin25

Have a great day!!!

Mari said...

Hope it works! :)

And thanks for the name update. You're a doll!

Jemi Fraser said...

Thanks Kimberly - the link up difficulties drive me crazy. I've got on Twitter now too :)

Jemi Fraser said...

Mari - Of course! I'm just sorry I didn't get it earlier :)

Mari said...

Hi dear!

I wanted to thank you for pointing me to this wonderful initiative you've joined. Thanks so much!

Also, I'm proud to announce that Randomities is also carbon neutral. Cheers to doing good! :D

http://mariblaser.blogspot.com/2010/04/randomities-is-carbon-neutral.html

Jemi Fraser said...

Mari - yay!!! I'm glad we're all jumping on board. Anything we can do is helpful. Love it! :)

Karen Jones Gowen said...

Jemi,

I don't see that you're stalking me, so please, come on over! I will stalk you as well. Although I can't click follow on this computer or my other blog icon comes up. I'll put you on my sidebar and follow when I get to the other computer. Other computer, other blog, are you now totally confused?

KarenG

Jemi Fraser said...

Karen - yup! Totally confused! I wish I'd had another computer to use last month :) I'm on my way to stalking you now!

erica m. chapman said...

Great post! Love the carbon neutral blog link! Thanks for sharing ;o) Congrats on the awards.

Have a wonderful weekend!

Jemi Fraser said...

Thanks Erica! I was kind of excited about the whole carbon neutral thing too. It's nice to know we're helping even if it's just a little bit :)

Lydia Kang said...

Congrats on the awards and being Green! I like your pink button, better than my boring old green one!

Jemi Fraser said...

Thanks Lydia :) I liked the pink button too!

Hannah said...

congrats on all your awards. (can you tell I'm playing catch up too?)

we are stalking each other equally.

Jemi Fraser said...

Hannah - isn't catchup a lot of fun! (sigh) I'm glad we're equal on the stalking front! :)